LOVE SURVEY
4-MOST OF THE TIME 3-MUCH OF THE TIME 2-SOME OF THE TIME
1-ALMOST NONE OF THE TIME
- My
parents modeled healthy patterns of love._____________
- I have
a fear of losing others' love.__________________
- When I experience hurt or frustration in love, I find
it more difficult to trust and love again.______
- I make
myself known in significant ways to those I love._______________
- I find it difficult to express loving feelings toward
members of the same sex._______
- I am as afraid of being accepted by those I Love as I
am of being rejected.___________
- I have
to take some risks if I am to open myself to loving.____________
- In my loving relationships there is complete trust
and an absence of fear.___________
- I accept those whom I love as they are, without
expecting them to be different.________
- I need
constant closeness and intimacy with those I love.___________-
Free Reflections:
- What
did you learn about love in your family of origin?
- How do
you express your love to others?
- How do
you let another person know your own need to receive love, affection, and
caring?
- List
some specific fears you have concerning loving others.
- What
barriers within yourself prevent others from loving you or prevent you
from fully receiving their love?
- List some qualities that you think are
lovable.
- What
are some specific ways in which you might become a more lovable person?